Governor Haley Signs Domestic Violence Awareness Month Proclamation
An apparel company has created a new type of underwear that they claim protects women from sexual assault. Tara Culp-Ressler of ThinkProgress.org explains why this is such a bad idea.
A company named AR Wear is making waves by marketing “a clothing line offering wearable protection for when things go wrong.” The line includes several different types of underwear and shorts that are intended to be difficult for a sexual predator to remove, and the founders explain that could help women feel safer when they’re “going out on a blind date, taking an evening run, ‘clubbing,’ traveling in unfamiliar countries, and any other activity that might make one anxious about the possibility of an assault.” AR Wear has currently raised about half of its $50,000 fundraising goal on the crowdfunding site IndieGoGo.
It’s fairly clear that AR Wear’s founders have the best of intentions. In a press release about the crowdfunding campaign, they explain that they want to help women reclaim control over what happens to their bodies. And on theirIndieGoGo site, they note that as long as sexual predators are still out there, it’s important to protect women from them.
Nonetheless, their effort has been widely criticized, derided as a new type of chastity belt for the “modern rape victim.” That’s not because people are opposed to preventing rape, of course — it’s because AR Wear seems to be missing a few crucial points about the reality of sexual assault. Here’s what the campaign gets wrong:
1. Rape isn’t an accident.
From the onset, the tagline of AR Wear’s campaign signals that this isn’t exactly the right framing for effectively tackling sexual assault. Marketing anti-rape underwear “for when things go wrong” suggests that sexual assault is an accident, or simply a night of partying gone sour. It subtly frames the incident in terms of the victim’s bad luck rather than in terms of the perpetrator’s decision to rape. In fact, sexual assault isn’t a slip-up; it’s a crime that a rapist has consciously committed.
“A woman or girl who is wearing one of our garments will be sending a clear message to her would-be assailant that she is NOT consenting. We believe that this undeniable message can help to prevent a significant number of rapes,” AR Wear notes. That’s not exactly right, either. Extensive research has shown that the people who commit rape aren’t simply confused about whether or not their victim consented. Rapists typically carefully select their victims and use a variety of tactics to manipulate them in order to accomplish their goal of sexual assault. In fact, especially when it comes to date rape, it’s often the victims who are confused about what constitutes consent, and that’s how the rapist gets away with it.
To read the full article, go to http://thinkprogress.org/health/2013/11/05/2889411/anti-rape-underwear-sexual-assault/.
As we begin November after recognizing October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, SC’s #1 National ranking for the number of women killed by men is still fresh in our minds. More than anything, we want to know, “What can we do to prevent this from happening?”
The answer rests in the primary prevention of sexual and intimate partner violence. Primary prevention of intimate partner violence (IPV) and sexual assault is a systematic process promoting healthy environments and behaviors, resulting in the reduction of the likelihood and the frequency of intimate partner violence and sexual assault. The root of these crimes lies in power and control over another individual, and primary prevention of these crimes focuses on addressing the power and control to which a perpetrator thinks they are entitled—at a very basic, system-wide level.
These system-wide levels are individual, relationship, community and institutions & society. Only when we begin to work in all of these areas will we begin to see change, and a lowered rate of IPV and sexual violence.
Stay tuned to the SCSaysNoMore Blog for specific discussions and examples of things you and your community can do at each of these levels. In the meantime:
What can you do at any of these levels to address intimate partner and sexual violence? Are there opportunities in your own community to begin addressing some of the attitudes and behaviors that encourage and support the perpetration of these crimes?